Now the other child does'nt want to talk.

Again, i had called to speak to the kids. This time i get the youngest to speak to me. The other two decline. "Okay," I said to myself. Thinking to myself how i don't wanna push them to talk, so i step back momentarily and the ex-wife tries to tell the kids to talk to your father. The elder two decline. Again, the kids mother tries to get the kids to speak to me and again the two kids decline. So i accepted it and said "let the two kids know that i miss them and love them. What worries me now is this head game. The head game that if i dont talk to the kids at all or try to make an effort, this could be used against me in court. However, I am confident that common sense will prevail. I cannot make the kids talk. Anyway, I go abouts my business. The next day i run into our ex-baby sitters mother who knows us and the kids. She herself is divorced also with three kids. I briefly explain the situation on the kids. She tells me that she thinks the reason that my daughter doesn't wanna talk anymore is because she has not seen me in months. I agree, and could see how that makes sense. However, the kids mother has made no effort to even invite me down to the kids birthday parties at all. My friend suggest that i don't stop calling the kids and to keep track of when i call and how long i talked and what went on as far as conversation goes. She believes this will help in thinking that I am not giving up on the kids. I told her I will start doing that. As always Christmas is coming and i yet to receive a christmas card. Also, I ask the kids mother if i could please have a school picture of the other two kids and just as i expected I am turned down again. My first instict is to notify my attorney. However, I suddenly remember that everytime I call him this cost money. Also, I already owe him five-hundred and twenty dollars already. Maybe I should let this go. I think I will.