I GET TO SPEAK TO THE KIDS AGAIN.

TODAY IS JANUARY 09,2008, WEDNESDAY, THE TIME IS 3:15P. THE WEATHER HERE IS VERY WINDY. WINDS ARE PUSHING UP TO SEVENTY MILES AN HOUR. THE TEMPERATURE HAS DROPPED DRASTICALLY BACK INTO THE WEATHER REVIEW AGAIN. ON JANUARY 07,2008. I HAD PLACED A CALL TO THE KIDS. AT APPROXIMATELY 6:09P. AGAIN, AND AS ALWAYS MOST OF THE TIME I RECEIVE THE ANSWERING MACHINE. AGAIN, THIS TIME AS ALWAYS, I BITE MY LIP AND PLAY THE GAME OF ASKING TO SPEAK TO THE KIDS. THIS TIME I MUSTER UP THE COURAGE TO REQUEST TO SPEAK TO THE "CHILDREN" AS SHE REFERS USING THE TERMINOLOGY. WITHIN TEN MINUTES VIEWERS, MY PHONE RINGS BACK WITH MY MIDDLE SON RESPONDING TO THE PHRASES OF"HI DADDY". MY MIDDLE SON AND I SPOKE FOR ABOUT TWENTY MINUTES. MY SON WAS TELLING ME HOW LAST NIGHT HE HAD GONE TO CHUCKY CHEESE FOR DINNER. I SENSE A TACTIC BY THE WIFE NUMBER ONE USING THIS PROPAGANDA TO MY SON TO GIVE TO ME. HOWEVER, I QUICKLY CHANGE THE DIRECTION BY SUPPORTING HIM AND TELLING MY MIDDLE SON, "FANTASTIC", AND "VERY GOOD" AND "YOU SHOULD GO" "ITS GOOD FOR YOU."

SUPPORT. MOVING ON, MY MIDDLE SON AGREES AND EXPLAINS TO ME THAT HE HAD CHEESE PIZZA, AND MY MIDDLE SON ALSO EXPLAINED HOW HE LEARNED HOW TO SING CHEESE, NOT ONCE SHOWING ANY SIGN OF NEGATIVE WHIPLASH. STRICTLY POSITIVE,CHUCKY CHEESE THEME SONG. AS FOLLOWS. "CHUCKY CHEESE. CHUCKYCHUCKY CHEESE, CHUCKY CHEESE" OVER AND OVER. AGAIN, I SUPPORT HIM AND RESPOND TO FANTASTIC. ANYWAY, I CHANGE TO SUBJECT BY ASKING HIM IF I COULD SPEAK TO THE YOUNGEST BABY, HIS BROTHER. MY MIDDLE SON SAYS YES AND CALLS FOR HIS BROTHER. THE BROTHER COMES TO THE PHONE AND SAYS "HI DADDY". I SAY "HI" SON. I TELL MY SON THAT I MISS HIM AND THAT I LOVE HIM VERY MUCH. MY YOUNGEST SON REPLIES HE LOVES ME TOO. I TELL MY SON GOOD BYE AND HE REPLIES GOODBYE DADDY, I LOVE U TOO. THIS FEELS VERY GOOD. THEN MY MIDDLE SON GETS BACK ON THE PHONE AND I ASK MY SON IF I COULD HAVE AN OPPORTUNITY TO SPEAK WITH MY DAUGHTER. MY MIDDLE SON SAYS SHE IS NOT HOME. EITHER HE IS TELLING ME THE TRUTH OR SHE IS AND THAT IS WHAT THEY THE FAMILY IS TRYING TO USE AS A TACTIC. SO I REPLY TO SAY, "I'M SORRY TO HEAR THAT" 'LET HER KNOW THAT I CALLED AND SAID HELLO AND WOULD LIKE TO SPEAK TO HER". IT IS AMAZING HOW WHEN U LEARN HOW TO USE THE TACTICS HOW YOU TOO CAN GET RESULTS. ALL I WANT IS TO BE AB LE TO TALK TO MY KIDS. SIMPLE AS THAT. I AM STILL THEIR FATHER. ALWAYS HAVE, ALWAYS WILL. WHAT SHE DOES WITH HER LIFE IS HER BUSINESS. NOT MINE. WHAT I DO IS MY BUSINESS. NOT HERS.